Family support – how to help a loved one with an eating disorder
If you are worried about a family member or friend, this page gives clear next steps and how EDCare can help. For a free clinical assessment, call 866-771-0861 or select a location to begin.
I Think My Loved One Has an Eating Disorder
Contact Admissions to discuss your concerns and the right level of care. Call, start the online form, or schedule a free clinical assessment at a nearby location.
It’s not just the person with the eating disorder who needs support, it’s the whole family.
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Pick a location to begin a free clinical assessment.
What Happens During an Assessment
- Typical length: about one hour, by phone or in person.
- Focus: medical history, eating behaviors, prior treatment, and current safety concerns.
- Outcome: recommended level of care and next steps for admission.
- Family input: clinicians may ask for family observations; family members can wait nearby unless the patient prefers otherwise.
On the Day of Admission
- The assessment informs the individualized treatment plan.
- Family members may attend orientation or brief family meetings when appropriate.
- Your Admissions Counselor will review logistics, visitation, and initial supports.
Defining Your Role in Recovery
- Keep routines and provide practical help (meals, appointments, transportation).
- Avoid comments about weight, calories, or body shape.
- Set clear, calm boundaries and follow the treatment team’s guidance.
- Work with clinicians on consistent expectations at home.
Safe Language Families Can Use
- “I’m worried because I’ve noticed changes in your eating and energy.”
- “Can I help you make an appointment?”
- “I want to support you. I’m not blaming you.”
Family Therapy
- Individual family therapy to improve communication and support strategies.
- Family therapy supports recovery goals and repairs relationships.
- Remote family sessions are available when needed.
- Mention eating disorder family therapy when you speak with admissions.
Group Therapy
- Multi-family groups focus on meal support, communication, and peer learning.
- Groups reduce isolation and give caregivers practical tools.
Cost of Care
EDCare is committed to providing the most cost-effective treatment possible so your loved one can afford a healthy life. We accept over 35 insurance plans, including some state-funded programs. We work with each individual to address specific financial issues, including single case agreements and out of network insurance carriers. We are your loved one’s advocates for good health and will work with you and your insurance company to obtain coverage.
Individualized Support You Need.
You simply can’t support them without the right team supporting you. We give you the individualized support you need, and the most effective tools to help you heal – individually, and together as a family.
Our team is dedicated to helping your loved one achieve eating disorder recovery with our flexible treatment options:
- Residential
- Partial Hospitalization
- Intensive Outpatient
- Evening Intensive Outpatient
- Virtual Intensive Outpatient
- Outpatient/Aftercare Services
- Housing Options
We treat the full spectrum of eating disorders:
Have a question? Check out our FAQs page.
FAQs for Families
What if my loved one refuses help?
Stay available and nonjudgmental. Continue to offer support and contact Admissions for guidance. If you believe there is immediate medical risk, seek urgent care.
How long is an assessment?
Most assessments take about one hour and can be done by phone or in person.
Will family therapy be included?
Family therapy and multi-family groups are available when appropriate to support recovery and communication.
How do I schedule a free clinical assessment?
Call 866-771-0861, use the online contact form, or choose a location to begin a free clinical assessment.